In treating children with Autism practicing Pediatric physical therapy or Relationship Development Intervention (RDI) here at Child and Family Development in Charlotte, NC, I see core difficulties in children with Autism as they try to manage the challenges of daily life. People with autism have difficulty negotiating a world where so many things happen simultaneously.
To come up with examples of this, I problem solved with Gail Fennimore, a physical therapist. We decided that play between children has lots of simultaneous challenges. Playing sports are classic examples. Think of all the important things that happen simultaneously in a game of kickball, soccer, freeze tag or duck duck goose. Simply playing safely on a crowded playground requires know what you are doing and the children next to you are doing or hope to do. Even by yourself, processing lots of information simultaneously allows you to walk safely up and down stairs, jump rope, or ride a bike for example.
In Speech Therapy, Sadia Syed explained to me that in a conversation we take in information not only from the words that people say but also from the tone of their voice, their inflection, their gestures, and facial expressions. The rate or loudness of their words can dramatically change the meaning of what is said. She explained that people with Autism may have poor processing skills, poor eye contact, short attention span, and decreased memory skills that make processing simultaneous information yet more difficult. As Sadia flipped her braided hair, she said, “Some children become distracted by something as simple as me flipping my hair or by my cool shiny ring, then nothing else is processed”.
In Occupational Therapy, Lindsey Pritchard said that when we write we have to simultaneously think of the formation of the letter we are writing, its spacing, alignment, and size, all while keeping in mind the word, sentence and paragraph and the overall theme/idea of the assignment.
In Psychology, Steve Elliott talked about how you have the simultaneous influence of multiple subsystems. A child has simultaneous relationships with his siblings, his parents, his pets, his peers, and his school, to name a few. The quality of the relationship between his parents, between a parent and his older brother, and between his siblings (or pets) has an effect on us. I think we all struggle to keep difficulties between us and our sister for example from affecting how we talk and interact with our parents or our teacher at school.
In Education Therapy, Martha Knight spoke to me of how difficult it could be while teaching to keep the attention of her class. Students have to listen and take notes (2 different types of processing) while tuning out the cool bulletin board beside them, the kid beside them picking their nose, the blinking of the fluorescent light or the police car with its siren blaring as it goes down the road.
Simultaneous challenges task all of us, but are particularly challenging for people with Autism. Relationship Development Intervention targets the core deficits of autism to work on the building blocks of these skills. Call me if I can help you, (704) 332-4834 ext 114.